A Homily for Friday after Ash Wednesday
Friday, February 20, 2026
Prince of Peace Catholic Church – 8:00 Mass
Isaiah 58:1-9a; Psalm 51:3-4, 5-6ab, 18-19; Matthew 9:14-15
Audio Recording
My friends, early in Lent the Church gives us a very direct message: God wants our hearts, not just our habits.
In today’s first reading from Isaiah, the people are confused. They complain, essentially, “Why do we fast and You don’t notice?” But the Lord responds that their fasting has become empty. They are going through the motions while still arguing, fighting, and neglecting the needy.
God then makes His point crystal clear: the fast He desires is one that frees the oppressed and cares for those in need.
In the Gospel, people question Jesus about fasting, and He responds by pointing to relationship — the presence of the Bridegroom. Lent, therefore, is not about spiritual dieting. It is about love.
When confusion arises in our faith, we are called to approach God with humility and openness rather than judgment or frustration. That insight fits beautifully with today’s readings.
For many of us — especially as we get older — Lent can become routine. We’ve “been there, done that.” We know about giving up chocolate or skipping desserts. But the Lord is gently asking us today:
Has your fasting changed your heart?
- You see, it is possible to give up sweets and still be sharp-tongued.
- It is possible to abstain from meat and still hold grudges.
- It is possible to pray more and still be impatient with the people closest to us.
The Lord is not impressed by external sacrifice alone. What He desires is interior conversion — a softer heart, a more generous spirit, a deeper trust.
For seniors especially, this is actually good news. Some of us may not be able to fast physically the way we once did. Health, medications, and age can limit that. But the most important Lenten sacrifices are still fully within our reach:
- Choosing patience instead of irritation
- Offering forgiveness instead of holding onto old hurts
- Showing kindness in small daily moments
- Trusting God when life feels uncertain
These are all powerful Lenten offerings.
Today is a perfect day to ask one simple question: “Lord, where do You want my heart to grow softer?”
- Maybe it’s toward a family member.
- Maybe toward someone who disappointed you years ago.
- Maybe even toward God Himself if you’ve been carrying quiet confusion or hurt.
Approach Him with humility — open, honest, and trusting. God is never distant. When we feel the gap, it is usually our own heart that needs gentle realignment.
This Lent, don’t just give something up. Let Jesus change something within.